Train strikes in the Netherlands recently forced a columnist to take an international bus from Amsterdam to The Hague, leading to reflections on the experience of long-distance bus travel. The journey highlighted both the drawbacks and unexpected camaraderie found on buses.

The initial confusion surrounding the bus departure point was immediately apparent. The columnist described the chaotic scene of a parking lot filled with various vehicles and confused travelers, with only a small, inadequate sign indicating departure and arrival points. This disorienting start may subtly lower traveler expectations, making them simply grateful to board the bus.

Once on board, the columnist encountered familiar challenges. These included cramped conditions, fellow passengers removing their shoes, and navigating luggage amongst litter. The driver’s temperament added to the experience, with displays of anger directed both at passengers and traffic.

However, the return journey offered some improvements. The columnist was met with a pleasant driver, but the enjoyment was marred by the driver’s decision to play loud Dutch music throughout the trip. After some time, the columnist requested that the music be turned down, and the driver eventually complied.

Despite the discomforts, the columnist also observed a unique sense of connection among passengers. A shared experience created a bond between them and the old man and the young boy showed their gratitude to the columnist with gestures of gratitude. This shared camaraderie, the columnist noted, is a phenomenon often found only on less-than-glamorous buses.