Andreas Gylling Æbelø, a 45-year-old author and advisor, discusses his journey reconciling his Christian faith with his homosexuality. He emphasizes that while his upbringing in a strict Christian environment initially led him to try to suppress his sexuality, he now finds peace and strength in his faith, viewing it as a personal connection with God.

Æbelø’s experiences have shaped his perspective on faith, which he now sees as a private matter rather than a performance or a political tool. He recounts the struggles he faced trying to conform to traditional views on sexuality within his religious community, including seeking conversion therapy at age 21, which he now recognizes as harmful. He emphasizes that he has managed to unite both parts of him: His faith and his sexuality.

He also clarifies that his criticism is directed at specific religious institutions and fundamentalist interpretations, not at his loving family or the core tenets of Christianity. Æbelø found freedom when he relinquished control and entrusted his path to God, acknowledging that his efforts to change his sexuality were a disservice to his true self. He underscores the importance of self-acceptance and authenticity.

Æbelø’s faith is deeply personal, and he prays regularly for his loved ones, considering his faith to be a constant presence in his life. He acknowledges the challenges and crises he has faced, including health issues and existential doubts, but his faith remains steadfast. Æbelø says that God is much bigger than people’s narrow interpretations.